Tuesday, August 28, 2007
My parents celebrated their Wedding Anniversary on the 29th of August and since this year is their 25th together as a couple in matrimony my brother and i threw a Party. It trully was a wonderful feeling. For long i believed that social occasions were a total waste of time and were meaningless.I couldn't perceive how such occasions brought happiness . I was wondering how a mere congregation of the human species who are wound by 'social ties' which i believe are meaningless is going to make people Happy.And interestingly, atleast for me, i was proved wrong!!
My mother in her finest jewellery was the center of attention.And my father was at his casual best wearing a short-kurta and a jean.Both of them shone like candles in the dark!! The happiness was visibly overflowing.A feeling which i still don't know. The feeling of having your invitation acknowledged by so many people.I've always thought it was no big deal but i guess it is.The happiness that pervaded our house that evening is beyond the realms of my vocabulary and i am sure that of most.
Social situations aint that useless actually...
Saturday, August 25, 2007
I often wonder how it would be if i could read minds. Or atleast make clear-cut judgments on how a particular person would react to a give situation.But its wierd how a person you know so well and you are so close to can turn out to be a completely different person!
You feel attached and begin to think your opinions can never differ.That you think alike and can take that person for granted.But BOOOOM there's a situation.Something unexpected happens. The person who you KNOW so well differs in something. You put yourself in his shoes and try making a decision.But you simply can't think otherwise.And all of a sudden you don't know that person at all.You cant take them for granted.Back to Square One.
No relationship can be smooth. It can be made smooth but it isn't by nature.
Ideality is merely a concept.A figment of imagination.It is a fantasy.
NO TWO EVENTS CAN TAKE PLACE AT THE SAME INSTANT OF TIME
NO TWO ELEMENTS HAVE THE SAME SYMBOL
NO TWO ZEBRAS HAVE IDENTICAL STRIPES
NO TWO PEOPLE ARE THE SAME . . . .